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Have a question about your mental health? Submit it anonymously and it may get a response from a mental health clinician at Counselling & Clinical Services.

The Dear Maddi advice column started in 2019, when psychologist Maddi Genovese began answering U of A students' mental health questions. Her first column, "Dear Maddi, I am having trouble making friends" took off. Maddi brought in colleagues from Counselling & Clinical Services (CCS) to keep up with the demand, and the column has since drawn tens of thousands of readers.

When Maddi left the university in 2024, the column kept her name in tribute to her work. Clinicians at CCS have continued answering student questions each month through the fall and winter terms.

Today, Dear Maddi covers everything from What should I do if it takes longer than expected to finish my degree? to How do I take time for myself without feeling guilty? Scroll down for the complete list, in order of publication.

This column is for educational and informational purposes only and isn't meant to address emergencies. If you are in a crisis, please visit the Need Help Now page.

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How do I cope with anxiety and stress when I feel stuck in old patterns?

Doctoral Psychology Resident Alanna Johnson explores how to move toward meaningful change.

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How do I deal with a crush who’s giving me mixed signals?

Psychologist Brittany Budzan explores how inconsistency can fuel anxiety in new relationships.

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How do I deal with grief and not let it stop me from doing school?

Psychologist and guest author Shauna Rosiechuk discusses the personal nature of loss and navigating grief.

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How do I take time for myself without feeling guilty?

Clinical Social Worker and guest author Rajneek Thind shares tips on how to make space for rest and recovery while letting go of guilt.

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How do I manage my anxiety going into a practicum?

Psychologist and guest author Neha Sharma shares tips on calming the worry beast when stepping into a practicum.

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Dear Maddi: How do I stop avoiding my struggles with speaking English?

Psychologist and guest author Jason Murray discusses how to turn avoidance into action when you’re trying to learn English.

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Dear Maddi: How do I balance space and connection when it comes to maintaining friendships?

Psychologist and guest author Dr. Karon Dragon discusses how to maintain friendships without losing yourself.

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Dear Maddi: How can I choose my path in life without regretting my choice later?

Psychologist and guest author Shauna Rosiechuk discusses the complexities of making major life choices for your future self.

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Dear Maddi: How do I stop feeling like I am not good enough for what I am doing?

Psychologist and guest author Dr. Brittany Budzan discusses how to navigate self-doubt when you’re not feeling good enough.

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Dear Maddi: How do I manage the stress from school when I don't have time to relax?

Psychologist and guest author Dr. Jasmine Bajwa helps us figure out how to build stress relief into a busy schedule.